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A recent survey conducted by BLK, the leading dating app for Black singles, has uncovered a significant trend among Black Gen Z daters—43% are currently practicing celibacy. Among Black Gen Z women, the number is even higher, with 64% embracing this lifestyle choice. Interestingly, most of these women are new to celibacy, with 63% having adopted it in the past six months.

This shift reflects a growing focus on personal development and mental wellbeing among young Black daters. The survey found that the top reasons for choosing celibacy include personal growth and self-discovery (61%), as well as frustration with toxic dating culture.

Key Survey Findings

• 43% of Black Gen Z daters are practicing celibacy.

• 64% of Black Gen Z women are celibate, with 63% having been celibate for less than six months.

• 61% cited personal growth or self-discovery as their primary reason for celibacy.

• 66% reported improved mental and emotional well-being due to celibacy.

• 87% said celibacy has either positively impacted their dating life or made no difference.

• 1 in 3 Black Gen Z daters believe celibacy is becoming more accepted, though 43% still feel there’s a stigma within the Black community.

Cultural Influence: Black Celebrities Leading the Charge

The celibacy movement among Black Gen Z mirrors the choices of prominent Black celebrities like Omarion, Mya, and 50 Cent, who have publicly embraced celibacy. Their openness about prioritizing personal growth and selfcare over physical relationships has added legitimacy to this lifestyle choice within the Black community. These cultural icons, admired for their authenticity, are helping destigmatize celibacy, encouraging younger generations to embrace it as a valid and empowering option.

Celibacy and Mental Health: A Positive Impact

Celibacy isn’t just about abstaining from physical intimacy; it’s become a means of emotional and mental selfcare for many Gen Z daters. The survey revealed that 66% of respondents reported significant improvements in their mental and emotional well-being since becoming celibate. By focusing on their inner growth and avoiding the stress of toxic dating environments, young Black singles are finding greater peace and clarity.

Contrary to concerns that celibacy might hinder dating success, 87% of those surveyed said it has either positively impacted their dating life or made no difference at all. In fact, many Black Gen Z daters prefer to discuss celibacy early in a relationship, creating transparency and fostering deeper connections.

Navigating Stigma: The Evolving Perception of Celibacy in the Black Community

While celibacy is becoming more accepted among Black Gen Z, with 1 in 3 feeling that it’s gaining acceptance, 43% believe that stigma or misunderstanding still exists within the broader Black community. These individuals are redefining what it means to date and thrive in relationships, challenging outdated societal norms in the process.

Jonathan Kirkland, Head of Brand and Marketing at BLK, highlights this cultural shift: "What we’re seeing with Black Gen Z singles is more than just a dating trend—it’s a movement towards personal empowerment and emotional well-being. This generation values authenticity and is reclaiming their narratives, prioritizing self-discovery over societal expectations. The rise in celibacy speaks to their desire for healthier relationships, both with themselves and others, and that’s a powerful statement."

As more Black Gen Z daters follow this path, celibacy is emerging as a growing cultural trend, not just for dating but as a broader statement about self-worth, mental health, and emotional wellbeing.